Your email address will not - never - appear on the site except in your personal profile that is only visible for you when you are logged in - so spam bots cannot harvest your address.
Your IP will be logged only for technical reasons by the content management system.
If you think this imposes an invasion of your privacy, you cannot use this site to the full extent.
It is your sole responsibilty to post only details about your person and your beloved that you deem to be ok to be viewed by an audience going into potentially millions of people on the internet.